A few weeks ago, my oldest was baptized. It was a wonderful experience. I grew up with a strong LDS mother and a wonderful father for whom the church did not really work. I was, therefore, baptized and confirmed and all those kinds of things by friends in the ward. Having married a great LDS man, all priesthood ordinances have been performed by him. This baptism was no exception. It was wonderful to have him baptize his daughter and it was a bonding experience between them.
My mother and my little sister were able to come from Connecticut. We had a small, intimate group of friends and family gathered for the occasion. It was a really touching experience. I think all that were there were touched by the Spirit and we all walked away spiritually filled.
Having my Mom come out was, as always, awesome. There have been times in my life, unfortunately, when I did not appreciate my mother for who she is. I often judged her for silly things and worried about her spirituality for no good reason. In recent months, I have seen my mother in a new light. She is stronger that all of us. My mother has found a balance that many will never find: a balance between being in the world and not of the world. She lives in Connecticut where there are few LDS people. She is a women of power in the field in which she works and is a strong member of her community. My mother is a spiritual giant. She has a relationship with her Heavenly Father that is unique and awesome. She loves all people and excepts everyone with open arms. She is selfless and caring but knows when she needs to lay boundaries. My mother has a testimony based on no one but her own spiritual understanding of things. When boats are rocked in her spiritual life, her firm foundation is only strengthened. I admire my mother so much. I can go on and on, but I will refrain. Just know this, there are many of us who pay so much attention to small details of rules and regulations that we miss the big picture. That is to love everyone and be Christlike. My mother has not missed the big picture, she is painting it.